Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Things not often mentioned during Yoga Teacher Training

During YTT I learned about the yamas and the niyamas (if you didn't, check out Katherine's wonderful series here), anatomy, alignment, basic Sanskirt, history, and a whole bunch more. Some things, however, just never came up. Here is a brief, indispensable and contestable list of some things I wish I knew when I completed by 200 hours. If you have anything to add, or strongly agree or disagree, I'd love to know as more and more of my friends become yoga teachers.

Things not often mentioned during Yoga Teacher Training

1. Someone, someday will walk out of your class before it is over. Sometimes right in the beginning, sometimes in the middle, sometimes during savasana. They may walk into the room, see that you are subbing for their beloved teacher, and walk right back out. It's not about you. I wrote a post about this earlier this year and a recent comment brought me back to it and the wonderful, encouraging comments I received after a couple walk outs left me feeling badly. I'll repeat again: It's not about you. All of you out there helped teach me that. Thank you.

2. Someone will experience unpleasant sensations during your class. Nausea and dizziness are both common. It's also likely, however, that no matter how gentle the class, no matter how perfect your instructions and languaging, someone will injure themselves in another way. Allow yourself some introspection regarding how you teach the pose and see if there is a safer way to language it or bring people into the pose. The student may have not been with the breath or allowed their mind to wander, making injury more likely. Let it be a learning experience but not a freak-out.

3. You will have students who have very unpleasant thoughts about you, even wishing you ill. I've had these thoughts about teachers. It happened to me a lot earlier in my practice. Usually, in the end, the teachers I think very angry thoughts about end up teaching me the most and are the most influential. In a way, then, I guess one can aspire to be a teaching that students have a lot of "feelings" about. When there's nothing left to burn up, we must light ourselves on fire. 

4. You will have a class where no one shows up or (sometimes worse) one or two people show up. One or two person classes can require much more of your own energy and grace. They are very challenging. Classes where no one shows up can be heartbreaking, depressing, and an opportunity to have more time to make the class that you would have taught even more rock star. If no one continually shows up... maybe tweak the class time. Poll the community and your friends. Advertise. Energy put out should come back to you.

5. If you teach yoga for income, you may have to deal with uncomfortable money situations. It's what happens when you mix an essentially spiritual practice with financial compensation. Many yoga teachers are also women, who also are less likely to ask for raises, more compensation, etc. Be realistic about what you need, what you deserve, and what is likely in the situation you are signing onto. It may be uncomfortable, but bring money up very early in a business relationship. 

6. Students may put you up onto a pedestal. Absolute and perfect respect can be respected, and that's mutual. Step off of the pedestal in a graceful leap, tuck, and roll. Then, take a sledgehammer to the pedestal, distributing all parts evenly. 

How do these sit with you? Indigestion or like a cup cake [insert favorite sweetness here]?
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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Ahhh....contentment.

The second niyama I'd like to chat about is samtosha or contentment. I am always reminding myself of this one. Since moving across the country this summer, I have been a struggling to adjust to a new pace of life and figure out what in the world I am meant to be doing. I’ve felt a bit lost at times. I’ve been unsure what my reality really is and obsessed with figuring it out. I’ve been anything other than content with where I am. I needed to discover how to find my feet – how to ground back down and be okay with where I am instead of constantly searching for where I “should” be. There is nowhere else to be that where we are now. Through all the meditation, mindfulness, and awareness I seek to find one piece of the puzzle that alluded me involved my emotions and I think this is where samtosha comes in to my life. It used to be if I was worried about something it took over my day or if I needed to make a decision I agonized and over-weighed all of my options. I literally had an afternoon two weeks ago where I couldn’t let these swirling thoughts and emotions define me. And so I shifted. I truly felt as if I walked through an invisible wall to the other side and embraced contentment. I embraced the mantra that accompanies my life: I am at peace. And I metaphorically walked to the other side. And it feels good. And I am in a different place now. I found my feet and I feel more grounded that ever. I don’t know what happened, but I know samtosha had a lot to do with it. It’s finding that amazing feeling you have at the end of an asana practice throughout your day – long after the time on the mat is done. I know that the heart of me is contentment and peace; truly believing (not simply saying it) has given me to freedom to chill out and savor all aspects of my life. How amazing is that? Letting go and knowing that peace is my true nature has set me free and made me feel a whole lot better. So, in discovering samtosha, I am finding my reality and that reality is peace. And it is good…really good.

As teachers, I think the best way of sharing samtosha is encouraging our students to be where they are. I often invite students to set the intention of honoring their body during their practice. I ask them to truly listen to the messages their body is sending them and allow those messages to guide and support their choices during their asana practice. My heart always warms when I see someone choose not to advance a pose because I know they are listening…not only to me, but to themselves. We can teach samtosha in those moments when we see someone struggling to take their pose a bit further...we can encourage them to find the positions where they can embrace contentment and peace. And that is what yoga is about: connecting to who you are, where your body is and loving it. Finding contentment and savoring you – exactly where you are!

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Friday, November 5, 2010

Balls! The good kind!

A bit ago, I talked about how I love to use a pink bouncy ball along pressure points. In a smaller class I taught, I gave out old tennis balls for students to use under their bodies.

Now, I'm going big time.

After sending out two emails to the Cornell University tennis teams, I have received two responses, and promises of more tennis balls than a girl could ever dream of. I plan on becoming a good fairy of "dead" tennis ball distribution, bringing them to all of the places I work. While I know a fair bit about yummy places to roll tennis balls (or Pinky's) along the torso, glutes, feet, etc. I am planning on doing a bit of research and starting to incorporate this into classes more often. Very excited!

If you happen to have a university in your town, I might recommend hitting them up for "dead" tennis balls. Even if you don't see an immediate use for them, an hour with you, some candlelight, a tennis ball, and NPR will probably change your mind.

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Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Back with the Niyamas

After a 2 week hiatus, I am looking forward to discussing the niyamas over the next few weeks. The yogic do's! I feel like the niyamas are a huge piece of the intention I set forth to living my yoga on a day to day basis; they are actions or observances to honor as we walk along the yogic path.

The first niyama is saucha or purity. We've all heard the old adage "cleanliness is next to godliness," but creating purity in our life is more that being sure we've showered. Maintain an orderly space around us can bring clarity of thought and respect for our belongings. Bringing mindfulness to our consumption habits: making choices to avoid toxic foods or purchase environmentally friendly products are also forms of bringing purity into our lives. Nourishing our body and soul by surrounding ourselves with order and eating & drinking mindfully helps to heighten the good in our lives and connect us to our source.

I've recently made some choices (for many reasons) that have connected me to saucha. I loved my morning cup of joe & my evening class of wine (I do live in Sonoma County after all!), but made the choice two months ago that those were habits that weren't serving me anymore. And honestly, I do sense more purity in my life and I don't miss them at all. I am experiencing clarity of my intention and connecting more with my true goals. Maybe it's giving up those "toxic" habits....maybe not, but it is something to think about.

Aadil Palkhivala has said that saucha is about separating our energies and allowing each energy to be distinct; therefore, honoring our personal energy as being unique. One way I like to bring that idea into my yoga classes is to honor that the space outside our yoga practice is different from the space on the mat. I ask my students to let go of where they came from and where they will be going when they leave class and find awareness in this space of the inner practice of yoga. Aadil also suggests that the way we treat our yoga mat is a represents the way we treat the world. Asking that your students respect each other's mats by not stepping on them creates order and honors each individuals energy & space (it also keeps things more sanitary!). Also bringing awareness to the way the mats are arranged for class can create a sense of order. Nice, neat rows opens the energy of the space for a more pure experience. Encouraging students to put their props away in a neat fashion also brings a heightened awareness to saucha.

Any thoughts on sharing saucha when you teach? Or in your daily life?
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Tibetan Yoga



Ready for your mind to be blown? I know I sometimes talk about wanting to jump right away from my computer to go try something... this is not one of those times. Readmore »»

Monday, November 1, 2010

ashtanga

yoga club

durham


November 2010

it's complicated!!


the regular classes are happening EXCEPT.......

here is the complicated part


no class on thanksgiving

no classes on the weekend of the 13th and 14th because we will be at a workshop at Skip and maryanne's studio in Siler City with Bobbi Misiti information on that below. come and practice with us!!!


But wait there's more!


Bobbi is teaching some special classes at yogaclub november 14 15 &16


Ashtanga IS for Beginners

2 hour introduction only 15 dollars!

sunday 14th 4 PM-6PM


AND


special mysore classes

monday 15th 6-8 AM
monday 15th 5-8 PM (with suzanne)
tuesday 16th 6-8 AM


and the regularly scheduled stuff of yogaclub


Sunday Mysore 8:30-11 AM

Monday&ThursdayMysore 5-8 PM

Wednesday Level 1 5:45-7:15 PM

Saturday Guided Primary 9-10:45 AM

classes are by donation

Please do not let $$$ keep you from practicing at yogaclub

IOUs and chocolate gladly accepted

Park in back on left side or along side porch in driveway if possible

(trying to keep off street parking for my neighbors)

class description

Mysore: All levels welcome, including complete beginners.

Level 1: Fundamentals of Ashtanga Yoga: suryanams & standing poses

Guided Primary Series: Instruction on postures will be limited.

If you are not familiar with the entire series, you are welcome to attend

and practice as is appropriate, then sit and observe. This is a hard class.

New to Ashtanga? New to Durham? Visiting?

email any questions to: suzyruth2@yahoo.com

yoga related emergency? call/text suzy’s cell 919-475-9579

thanks for checking out our cute little blog!

Workshops
with Bobbi at Skip's

Ashtanga Yoga Weekend Workshop With Bobbi Misiti

Location: Silk Hope Yoga
25 Irving Lindley Road, Siler City, NC 27344 November 12, 13, 14 2010 (email skip for directions, only takes about 50 minutes from durham)

Friday Nov. 12 
6:00pm Mysore Class + Discussion

Saturday Nov. 13 
9:00am - Noon Mysore


2:00 - 4:30pm Second Series pose by pose and vinyasa by vinyasa

Sunday Nov. 14
 9:00am Mysore

Cost: $150.00 USD

To Register: Contact Skip Doty, jpskipdoty@aol.com

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Mysore Classes + Beginner Workshop

Location: Ashtanga Yoga Club of Durham


305 West Markham Ave., Durham NC 27701

Sunday Nov. 14 4:00pm – 6:00pm

Ashtanga Yoga IS for Beginners

Monday Nov. 15 6am - Mysore

Monday Nov. 15 5:00-8:00p - Mysore (with suzanne)

Tuesday Nov. 16 6am - Mysore

Cost $15.00 / class limited to 12 people per class

To Register: Contact Suzanne Faulkner, suzyruth2@yahoo.com

About Bobbi:

Bobbi has studied Ashtanga Yoga extensively with Nancy Gilgoff

and teaches as she has been taught

in the classic method of Ashtanga Vinyasa Yoga.

Bobbi has been teaching yoga since 1997

and prior to that taught health, wellness and exercise since 1990.

In 2001 Bobbi founded Be Fit Body & Mind Yoga,

a yoga studio dedicated

to the teachings of Ashtanga Yoga.

Yogaclub loves Bobbi. She is awesome and not the least bit dogmatic!!!

For more information contact Bobbi at 717/443-1119

bobbi@befityoga.com, or check out a complete bio www.befityoga.com.

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Guest Post from Kelly: 30 Day Challenge

This post comes from one of my oldest friends (Kelly, not sure if you knew that!) She is a yogini goddess, and is starting a 30 day yoga challenge today. Go, Kelly go! She also has a blog, which, if you're as into reading as you are into yoga, I would subscribe to. I have no idea how these Novel Ladies read so much. If you want to take a cue from Kelly, get inspired, and commit to your own 30 day practice... whatever it is!

The 30 Day Challenge

A few weeks ago my studio announced that for the month of November they were going to be having a 30 Day Yoga Challenge. The premise is simple: go to one yoga class every day for thirty days. If you need to skip a day, that's okay! You just have to double up another day. A tracking calendar is provided for you and there is no extra fee to participate. At first the sign made me pause and think if I wanted to do it. Within a minute I thought, "Nahhhhh... too hard. How will I go out with my friends after work on Fridays? Forget it!" About a week later I was taking a hot yoga class with the studio owner and during a short rest she encouraged us to sign up. "Your yoga practice will be changed forever," she said. "And there are some prizes."

This intrigued me. My practice will be changed forever? There are prizes?!?! Hmmm... For the rest of the class I was distracted by the thought of how I could accomplish this. How could I make it a priority and work it into my daily schedule for an entire month? I realized quickly that it was feasible if I really wanted to do it. It would involve me pushing myself to take some classes I usually do not, like Power Vinyasa and Hot Fusion, however ultimately that would be a good thing. The catch is that I happen to be a habitual quitter. I start things with enthusiasm and then for whatever reason abandon my activities or tasks. Generally I blame this on my Gemini fickleness but I find it to be a character flaw of mine that needs improvement. I spoke with the owner afterward and of course she was very excited about my participation. She had me sign up for the Thanksgiving Flow Before the Feast charity class and asked if I would be willing to a write a testimonial about the holiday practice. "Oh no," I thought. "I'm committed!"

With some encouragement from my husband and mother I started to believe in myself a little more. Then I thought about who else could keep me accountable. How about my 103 6th graders? I introduced the idea of joining me and starting their own personal 30 Day Challenge. I told them my story, handed out tracking calendars and said that the students who finished the Challenge would be recognized publicly at our December assembly with a certificate. I'd even make a wall of recognition for them! Being such a great group of kids, the response was outstanding and almost all of them decided they would try it out. "I really have to do this now," I said to the English teacher on my team. She laughed and replied, "Yes, you do!"

What am I so afraid of? A yoga class for thirty days straight isn't exactly a solo trip around the world in a tiny sailboat. Or is it? Yoga is a discipline and a commitment. It's going to take me out of my comfort zone. I'm scared that I will get sick of my classes and possibly yoga altogether. It frightens me to think that I might fail because of my track record with quitting things. But the possible benefits outweigh those other outcomes. Because maybe, just maybe, I will demonstrate determination and success with the added sweetness of bettering not only my practice but also strengthening my inner peace. Readmore »»